Thursday, October 23, 2008

Daddy to Daughter *possible tissue warning*

I have this picture hanging in my hallway, my dad took it at Disneyland when I was 6. On the back of the picture he wrote this:

Dear Beth:
This picture will travel with you on life's journey my daughter, and in it I see the wish-upon-a-star that I make now for you:

"...Just A Spoonful of Sugar Helps the Medicine Go Down..." I wish for you the willingness to find the special blessing in all that happens - whether good or bad - realizing that in every person and situation good can be found and that with each ending comes the promise of a new beginning.

"...Cinderella Had No Time To Get Ready For the Ball As She Was Too Busy Helping Her Sisters..." I wish for you the discovery of the joy and contentment found in giving to others - placing them first before yourself - realizing that all we really have to give is ourselves.

"...And Tinkerbell Sprinkled Fairydust On The Children And Together They Flew Into A World Of Makebelieve" I wish for you the willingness to dream, and for the courage to live a life which will bring to reality that which you hope and believe.

"...And Beauty Kissed the Beast and Immediately He Turned into a Handsome Prince..." I wish for you the desire and the ability to enable those around you to become all they possibly can thorough your belief in them - allowing them to come way from you impressed with themselves rather than with you.

"...And With A Kiss, The Charming Prince Awoke Sleeping Beauty..." I wish for you the selfless love of a sincere man - a love which will set you free to fully attain the beauty of which you are capable.

"... And they Lived Happily Everafter..." I wish for you true happiness - found not in things, but rather in relationships.

May the cement post onto which you are holding represent the solid foundation in your life which God can provide if you will allow Him.

May the castle represent the accomplishment of those good works of which you are uniquely capable

And may you always view life through those same smiling, expectant eyes which show such happiness as you have found this day.

All My Love - Dad (Christmas 1978)

49 comments:

Trish said...

ummm hello, it's a little difficult to see through my tears........

that is so amazing.

Swirl Girl said...

cherish that ALWAYS!!

I wish I had something concrete to show how much my father loved me, altough I KNOW he did.

something dreamy and full of promise like this poetry.

lucky duck you are...indeed.

Frizzy said...

IF that isn't the best memento/gift from a father ever I don't know what is. I now see where you get your deep and poetic side.

Putting the FUN in DysFUNctional said...

Wow! You are lucky to have such a treasure.

Nonnas News said...

Wow!! That is priceless!!

Givinya De Elba said...

That is really lovely :)

Ronda's Rants said...

So sweet...
and God I feel old...you were 6 in 1978!!!
Well, that's just lovely!

Anonymous said...

What a great gift! I love that your dad had his priorities in life so straight, and made sure to pass them on to you! You must have had a very loving family. :)

Wep said...

Thanks for the tissue warning...so sweet!

Jen said...

wow, I got goosebumps. That is one awesome letter. I can see why you cherish it.

Kori said...

Oh how lovely. What a dad!

Jennifer and Sandi said...

That is awesome! What a treasure! We awarded you a Meme Award today....go check it out!

Have a great day!!!

- Jennifer

Heather said...

*sniff sniff*

That was so amazing. Your dad rocks, and clearly has for DECADES now!

That post was just like a big ole hug. I totally have the warm fuzzies now (and thanks for the tissue warning - 'twas needed!)

:)

Heather said...

Thanks for the tissue warning.

Your dad sounds like an incredible man. What a blessing to have a man like that in your life.

My dad was sentimental, but not very expressive with words. I do treasure anything I have that he had written to me, though.

Great post. (And I love the photo!)

Unknown said...

Wow, that was truely amazing. What a great sentinment to hold onto when things get rough or when you feel the urge. Your dad sounds like an amazing person and a great father who had nothing but love, admiration, and high dreams for his daughter.

Thanks for sharing.

Deanna said...

I think I read that three times. Wow! Wow! Wow! It makes me think about what I can for my boys like this.

Keys to the Magic Travel said...

Oh, wow. What an amazing gift he gave you. For him to be able to see so much in a picture. And to write it down...knowing that the words would mean more and more as you continued on your "life's journey."

~Trish~ said...

Awesome!!! That is the coolest thing I've seen in a long time!!

Amy said...

Awww, so sweet and caring. What a wonderful dad you have :D

Anonymous said...

What wonderful hopes and wishes he had for you...how awesome to have a man care for you in that way.

You deserve each and every one of those things.

Aubrey said...

THANKS for the tissue warning. Wow. What a blessing to have a treasure like that!

Tracy P. said...

POSSIBLE tissue warning, she says. Wow. Wow.

Lynda said...

Oh, Lizzy, what a sweet, sweet letter. I love this.

Michelle said...

Can you type in bigger font size? It's really hard to read those tiny letters when I'm WEEPING.

Sarah said...

What a wonderful post. :)

Thanks for visiting me on my BATW day.

I can imagine about your daughters name. I sometimes forgot the J sounds like a Y :)

You should come to DK someday. It's an amazing place and I always think it is so neat to visit where you are from :)

Mama Wheaton said...

That was wonderful.I not only wish I knew my own dad, but it makes wish that the father of my children was more expressive with the kids to let them know they are loved. Thank you for sharing.

Caroline said...

Wow - that is POWERFUL! What a blessing to have an earthly father who spoke those words of blessing to you at an early age!

Anonymous said...

That is so amazing! made me tear up a little! How sweet is that!

Anonymous said...

That was VERY sweet!!!

Unknown said...

oh.my.goodness! what a beautiful post and a man wrote that? my faith has been restored ;-)

Lula! said...

Now I know why you are the woman you are. Your Dad. And your Father. Both of whom ROCK!!!!

Precious...truly...

Britt said...

What an amazing daddy .. Every girl deserves a father like that.

Thank you for sharing!

sassy stephanie said...

Awww. *sniff

Susie said...

What a wonderful keepsake of a father's dream for his daughter. You are truly blessed:-)

Alison said...

Thanks for the tissue warning. Your dad sounds like a wonderful father.

Aunt Julie said...

What a lovely sentiment and a beautiful post!

j said...

This is priceless Lizzy. I would give a two tissue warning though. Just wonderful.

Dawn said...

Awwww you are so lucky! I would give anything to have had a daddy like that!!!

Carla said...

thanks for making me cry! This is still one of my favorite stories.

KimmyJ said...

That is amazing - simply priceless!

Kathi Roach said...

omg!! that is beautiful!!! What a wonderful Dad...u r a lucky girl to have had a Dad like that!!

Cassoulet Cafe said...

That. is. BEAUTIFUL.
*sniff*

Melisa S. said...

Wow...I am speechless and in tears.

Claremont First Ward said...

Oh my goodness.........one tissue? This calls for at least 4. So special!

Sydney said...

Thanks for the tissue warning. I'm going to go call my dad now.

Anonymous said...

WOW! How profound!!!

Angie's Spot said...

Possible Tissue Warning?!?!?!

Thanks for sharing such a beautiful memory with us. I'm off to find another box of tissues now.

Shannon said...

What a great thing to have from your dad... so sweet!

J'Ollie Primitives said...

I hope Dad got all of the wishes he wished for you ~~~~~~~~

"And may you always view life through those same smiling, expectant eyes which show such happiness as you have found this day."

beautiful (sniffle) What a wonderful wish list.