Friday, January 28, 2011

25 Years

25 years ago I was an 8th grader, home sick from school, watching Wheel of Fortune, when they broke in with a special news report. The space shuttle, carrying the first "common citizen", a teacher, had exploded not long after take off. For people in the generation before me, JFK's assassination is "that moment" that they remember where they were and what they were doing. And for many it was an awakening to the realization that life isn't always idyllic and "Camelot"... sometimes really terrible things happen. For people younger than me, 9/11 is that moment. And of course that will be a day I will never forget. But 25 years ago today is the day that I realized that everything doesn't always go right... and really bad, tragic things happen. Watching the space shuttle blow up over and over and over again. Bad... bad thing. My hearts and prayers go out to the families that lost loved ones that day. Their children who are now grown and most likely have children of their own. Their spouses who have gone on most likely for longer now without them than they were ever with them. We won't ever forget. We can't.


President Reagan's address to the nation 1/28/1986

Ladies and Gentlemen, I'd planned to speak to you tonight to report on the state of the Union, but the events of earlier today have led me to change those plans. Today is a day for mourning and remembering. Nancy and I are pained to the core by the tragedy of the shuttle Challenger. We know we share this pain with all of the people of our country. This is truly a national loss.

Nineteen years ago, almost to the day, we lost three astronauts in a terrible accident on the ground. But we've never lost an astronaut in flight. We've never had a tragedy like this.

And perhaps we've forgotten the courage it took for the crew of the shuttle. But they, the Challenger Seven, were aware of the dangers, but overcame them and did their jobs brilliantly. We mourn seven heroes: Michael Smith, Dick Scobee, Judish Resnik, Ronald McNair, Ellison Onizuka, Gregory Jarvis and Christa McAuliffe.

We mourn their loss as a nation together.

For the families of the seven, we cannot bear, as you do, the full impact of this tragedy. But we feel the loss, and we're thinking about you so very much. Your loved ones were daring and brave, and they had that special grace, that special spirit that says, "Give me a challenge, and I'll meet it with joy." They had a hunger to explore the universe and discover its truths. They wished to serve, and they did. They served all of us.

We've grown used to wonders in this century. It's hard to dazzle us. But for twenty-five years the United States space program has been doing just that. We've grown used to the idea of space, and, perhaps we forget that we've only just begun. We're still pioneers. They, the members of the Challenger crew, were pioneers.

And I want to say something to the schoolchildren of America who were watching the live coverage of the shuttle's take-off. I know it's hard to understand, but sometimes painful things like this happen. It's all part of the process of exploration and discovery. It's all part of taking a chance and expanding man's horizons. The future doesn't belong to the fainthearted; it belongs to the brave. The Challenger crew was pulling us into the future, and we'll continue to follow them.

I've always had great faith in and respect for our space program. And what happened today does nothing to diminish it. We don't hide our space program. We don't keep secrets and cover things up. We do it all up front and in public. That's the way freedom is, and we wouldn't change it for a minute.

We'll continue our quest in space. There will be more shuttle flights and more shuttle crews and, yes, more volunteers, more civilians, more teachers in space. Nothing ends here; our hopes and our journeys continue.

I want to add that I wish I could talk to every man and woman who works for NASA, or who worked on this mission and tell them: "Your dedication and professionalism have moved and impressed us for decades. And we know of your anguish. We share it."

There's a coincidence today. On this day three hundred and ninety years ago, the great explorer Sir Francis Drake died aboard ship off the coast of Panama. In his lifetime the great frontiers were the oceans, and a historian later said, "He lived by the sea, died on it, and was buried in it." Well, today, we can say of the Challenger crew: Their dedication was, like Drake's, complete.

The crew of the space shuttle Challenger honored us by the manner in which they lived their lives. We will never forget them, nor the last time we saw them, this morning, as they prepared for their journey and waved goodbye and "slipped the surly bonds of earth" to "touch the face of God."

Thank you.





Thursday, January 27, 2011

American Idol Week 2

Um... so I sat down to start recapping AI at 8 pm. And then suddenly I opened my eyes and there were 2 little girls standing in front of me saying "Mommy... it's 11 o'clock. Should we go to bed?"

Um...

Yeah.

Bed... good idea.

So I will smush last night and tonight's all in one post and get that to ya tonight.

Jeesh...

I need more sleep.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

American Idol - Season 10 Sharpie Style - Meet The Judges

I've had some fairly extreme difficulties posting my recap of last nights Idol. JEEZ internet... please give a gal a break.

But I think we can all agree the big story last night was the judges. I, personally, was more than a little skeptical going in. Steven Tyler? Really? Judging musical talent? He who shrieks... alot? And then Jennifer Lopez - J-Lo - Jenny from the Block... in that case I was a little worried about the Diva thing (in fact yesterday I read an article that she bought a house in LA, told the designer what she wanted, and just as the designer had just about finished the house, J-Lo Changed her mind about EVERYTHING and the lady had to start over). And then Randy. Randy Randy Randy... dawg dawg dawg... for me for you.....

BUT



Randy Jackson - He seems to be better this year. Not as many dawgs... not as many cliche's as in the past. He's always been sort of a non-entity in the past and that seems like it's holding true. I did laugh when J-Lo said to him "How did you DO this for 10 years???"
Jennifer Lopez - At first I was worried we had another Ellen here - unable to give bad news. But as time went on she seemed to start to get better at it. And she CLEARLY has watched Idol for years, which I like. She also didn't show much of the Diva attitude and was really sweet to the couple contestants who got all undone by her presence.

Steven Tyler - Oh - this is the one that blew me away. He was AWESOME!! Just enough wit and biting comments to cover the space that Simon left, but without the just down-right sense of MEAN that Simon had. And watching Steven ENJOY the singers in front of him was a hoot! He'd sing along or drum the beat on his desk. Loved him. It'll be interesting to see how he does once they hit the live stuff, but I've got a good feeling.

So.... there's more recap to come... once I get the dumb stuff to scan right.

Did you watch last night? Were you happy with the new judges or not? Who would be your ideal judges? Do you think Simon was secretly watching last night?

Saturday, January 8, 2011

2011 - The Motto

The last few months at my job have been.... challenging. Nepotism and ageism reign, as does my great-bosses seeming disdain for both overweight people and working moms (so yeah, we get along GREAT!!!!!)

Of course it's that time of year when we're supposed to make our goals for the coming year. Ugh. Seriously. My goal is to come in, do the job I'm paid to do, and leave at 5. I don't want to reinvent the wheel, I don't want to scrape and climb my way up the corporate ladder, I don't really care to figure out ways to make our processes oh-so-much-smoother. I just want to do my job and go home. I. Don't. Care.

That's not the kind of person I think I'm supposed to be. I think we're supposed to be driven and determined and want to get ahead and make more money. I don't. I want to get home to my family and be with them.

So.... my Motto (?) for 2011 is "I'm more of a Jimmy Buffett than a Warren Buffett"

Friday, January 7, 2011

Snow Babies

Apparently we here in "Hot"lanta are expecting a (quote from local news source) "Largest Snow Event in Years"... maybe even 5-7 inches on Sunday night/Monday morning.

I'm guessing the Ladies won't have school. Which is good because we don't have the attire required anymore for that kind of weather.

We used to:

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Barbie's Assets

I have a 7-year-old girl in my house, and we had an appropriately Barbie-Centric Christmas. The pink level in our house increased about ten-fold.

Included in the haul was "Video Barbie"... she has a video camera in her - the lens "hidden" in her necklace.
Of course she needed batteries, so we checked the directions and... um.... pulled her pants down to put the batteries in her legs... and were met with this:



Really??? REALLY??? Why is that there? Is there a screw? The other screws aren't covered up, why that one... why there? I'm not being a prude because I think it's funny, I'm just trying to figure out what meeting they had over at Matel where THAT seemed like a good idea.....

Saturday, January 1, 2011

2011 looks back at 2010

While I'm not really a resolution gal, I do have 3 I'm going to make. #1 - Drink 24 oz of water every day before I drink any Diet Mt. Dew (I love DMD... sometimes I walk into my house fully expecting my family to be there saying "It's us or the DMD). #2 - Exercise in some manner 5 times a week. Even if it's just using the Wii Fit. And #3 - blog 5 times a week. It doesn't need to be earth shattering or hysterically funny, just say SOMETHING. It's my way of journaling, and I need to keep up with it. So on that note I found this meme from my friend Angie.

1. What did you do in 2010 that you'd never done before?

Dealt with remodeling a house. I'd like to say I'm never going to do it again, but we already have plans to do some stuff to the master bathroom/girls bathroom, but BELIEVE me I've learned some lessons.

2. Did you keep your New Year's resolutions and will you make more for next year?
I didn't make any last year. See the beginning of this post for resolutions for 2011.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
Good grief... 2011 was the year of the baby, but no one REALLY close to me had a baby. Lots of friends and relatives did though.

4. Did anyone close to you die?
No.

5. What countries did you visit?
The Socialist State of Walmart. It wasn't pretty. Don't really care to go back.

6. What would you like to have in 2011 that you lacked in 2010?
A diamond ring.

7. What dates from 2010 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
February 26th is the day Mr. B closed on OUR house.

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Getting control of my bills. And honestly - every day as a single mom

9. What was your biggest failure?
Gosh darn it... I don't want to go with failure... cause every failure is an opportunity....

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
It's been a pretty healthy year. Some colds... a sore back for a little bit....

11. What was the best thing you bought?
Well... Mr. B bought our house so I guess that doesn't count. Um.... I guess all the movie tickets I bought to take the ladies too, because those are wonderful times with my girls that I treasure.

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
Gert has kicked ASS in 2nd grade. She's got A's in every class, E's in every behavior aspect, in a gifted math class (with an A), gets her homework done on time or before time every day, she's made good friends in both school and after school, and she's a sweet, sweet girl. Essie is struggling in 6th grade. She starts going to resource classes on Tuesday. Every night is a struggle to get homework done. And she's got a teen attitude for sure. But she's a fighter. And gosh darn that girl got a 93 on her English term final! And a 90 on a HUGE end of semester project. And she still says this is the best school she's ever gone to, and she STILL goes to school every morning without fussing (which is a new things this year). She's walking a much different road than her sister, and it makes me sad that her route seems to be harder, but I KNOW she will come out on the other side a strong, strong woman. I'm so proud of both of them.

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
People I work for. Nepotism, stupid choices, favoritism, and spreading outrageous lies about employees. Ugh.

14. Where did most of your money go?
Bills, bills, bills and eating out way too much.

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Though the process has been a ROYAL PAIN IN THE ARSE, watching my visions for the house come to fruition has been REALLY exciting. Seeing what I thought MIGHT be a good idea turn into a REALLY GOOD IDEA has been awesome.

16. What song will always remind you of 2010?
"Just the Way You Are" Bruno Mars

17. Compared to this time last year, are you: a)happier or sadder; b)thinner or fatter; c)richer or poorer?
Happier, fatter and poorer. That says something doesn't it?

18. What do you wish you had done more of?
Organizing and cleaning.

19. What do you wish you had done less of?
Watching TV

20. How did you spend Christmas?
Christmas eve was with Mr. B and my mom and I at Kat's house. Christmas day I got my babies back and we redid Christmas Eve.

21. Did you fall in love in 2010?
I feel FURTHER in Love. Each day with Mr. B in my life I fall deeper and deeper in love with him.

22. What was your favorite tv program?
Glee..... and I LOVE watching with Mr. B.

23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year?
Hate's a pretty strong word, but I really don't like the people I work for (see above)

24. What was the best book you read?
"Outlander" by Diana Gabaldon

25. What was your greatest musical discovery?
Bruno Mars and The Beezlebubs

26. What did you want and get?
A Cricut cutting machine and... a house.

27. What did you want and not get?
A piece of paper.

28. What was your favorite film of 2010?
Toy Story 3

29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
38 and honestly... I don't really remember what I did.

30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
That piece of paper.

31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept of 2010?
HA HA HA.... "personal fashion concept".... "whatever the hell still fits"

32. What kept you sane?
Mr. B.

33. What political issue stirred you the most?
Oh good grief... what didn't? In general I'm just tired of the growing chasm between Reps & Dems in Washington, that I don't feel accurately reflects the much smaller chasm between Reps & Dems in the "real world"

34. Who did you miss?
Lots of people... moving to a new place means you get to miss a lot of people.

35. Who was the best new person you met?
Julia for sure.

36. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2010.
Have patience, have patience......

37. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year.
When I see your face
There’s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are