Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Afloat in a Boat

I spent Father's Day with my ex... on his boat. It made my girls happy. While it wasn't my ideal day, it IS what I hoped we could have - a friendship that allows our girls to not feel like they have to pick sides or can't have both their mommy and daddy at big life events.

Now the GOOD part of the day... pictures...





27 comments:

Ronda's Rants said...

How very smart and sweet of you...
you are really a treasure!

wendy said...

That's way cool of you and so good for the ladies. You are a rock star!

Keys to the Magic Travel said...

I am most impressed that you decided to go on the boat. You are just so good.

And the girls...I love their windswept hair!!

Heather said...

You are the best mom ever.

I love boats.

I can tell your girls had a great time. Sweet pictures!

sassy stephanie said...

What an unselfish mommy move. Great to hear it went well.

Tracy P. said...

Yea for you, Lizzy!!! Love those big smiles!

Tami said...

You are AWESOME!!

Maybe you could teach Jon & Kate that lesson?!? hehehe

Melissa said...

You are a great mom! What a great way to spend the day! Your ladies look like they had a blast!

Elena said...

WOW! I was shocked when I read this. I know how much you didn't want to do this. Good for you for making your babies happy. And I'm glad the time was somewhat enjoyable!!

Karyn @ Candarbry Garden said...

Just think, you almost missed the opportunity to see those smiles. Thank you for the life lesson! Pretty ladies! Looks like it turned into a nice day for all.

Karyn @ Candarbry Garden said...

Just think, you almost missed the opportunity to see those smiles. Thank you for the life lesson! Pretty ladies! Looks like it turned into a nice day for all.

Gina said...

Wow. What a way to pull up your big girl panties. The Ladies will definitely benefit from being around grown ups. Good for you.
(I'm not sure I could be that grown up.)

Unknown said...

you are so awesome I am not sure i could spend 30mins with my ex left alone an entire day...you rock!

loved the pics beautiful family!

Susie said...

That transition from divorce to being civil to a friendly co-parenting is really healthy for the kids. They look really happy:-) Good job Mom:-)

CaraBee said...

I'm super impressed that you can have that kind of relationship with your ex. I can't imagine how hard it must be, but I think your kids will appreciate it.

Those pictures are amazing!

Jen said...

those are great Lizzy!

Grand Pooba said...

My parents are friends even though they are divorced and it has made it so much easier on us kids!

Cute girls!

Alison said...

You are wonderful. I know your girls will appreciate these efforts (even more than they already do) someday.

natalie said...

Looks like they had such a good time. Go, you! :)

Anonymous said...

I'm impressed Lizzie....you deserve a mom of the year award for that...the ladies look like they had a blast!

Swirl Girl said...

You done good, Lizzy.

Putting the FUN in DysFUNctional said...

I think it's great that you were able to do that. Your girls are lucky.

I'm Jamie said...

What fun!
I think it is SO great that you are able to get along with your ex in an effort to make things more pleasant for your girls... truly a great thing :)

Rene said...

Lizzie -- I am so proud of you! I also spent part of the day with my soon-to-be ex. I played nice and I paid for dinner for him, our son, and our son's girlfriend. When really all I wanted to do was run and get as far away from him as possible. Oh, well, I guess I have to be a grown up sometimes...ugh!! You are an inspiration girl!!

Hugs,

Rene

Aunt Julie said...

What great shots! What a wonderful way to spend Dad's Day...

Angie's Spot said...

You are the woman! A great person and a great mom. Those 2 precious girls are so lucky to have you!

Maria said...

your girls are so beautiful!! they have the prettiest eyes.